Allison Hanley
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC)
Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC)
I specialize in helping teens, young adults, and moms navigate life’s challenges and transitions, empowering them to embrace change and step into something new. Together, we'll work on growing through whatever you go through, allowing inner strength to emerge, so you can come out stronger, more resilient, and confident in your ability to handle whatever life throws your way.
I GET IT!
I’ve been there and I can help you make sense of it all and find a way forward! All the stress, pressure, pain, losses and obstacles in life can be overwhelming. Life isn’t easy! And It’s okay not to be okay right now. Sometimes we just need a little help to get back on track, to feel unstuck. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, burnt out from stress, burdened with the intense pressure of being “perfect,” struggling with low self-esteem and self-doubt, exhausted from the demands of modern life, adjusting to life transitions, weighed down by grief and loss, consumed by guilt and shame, disconnected from your true self, you don’t have to face these challenges alone.
What if you trusted yourself enough that your anxieties no longer defined you or limited your worth? What if you could embrace all the parts that make you unique with love and compassion? What if you uncovered the obstacles preventing you from living the life you desire? What if you prioritized self-care, rest, and restored your sense of balance? What if you actually began enjoying life more? What if you had someone in your corner, supporting and encouraging you along the way in a safe, empathetic, judgment-free space?
I bring warmth, curiosity, and openness to the therapeutic process which is tailored to your specific goals and delivered in a way that feels authentic to you. You are the expert on your own life, and you set the pace that aligns with your needs. Rather than a one-size-fits-all approach, we’ll work together to ensure you get the most meaningful results and care you deserve.
I remember all too well what it’s like to be a teen, consumed by overwhelming stress and anxiety. You’re constantly worried about how others perceive you, feeling like you have to do more, be better, look perfect, and perform flawlessly—because if you don’t, everything will fall apart, right? Drowning in insecurity you replay every word, every interaction, over and over in your head, constantly comparing yourself to others. It feels like everyone else has it all together—living their best life—while you’re struggling to keep your head above water, terrified of missing out. Just making it through a school day can feel exhausting—caught between pressure from your parents and teachers, worries about grades, trying to fit in, and the constant uncertainty about what the future holds. Everything feels like it’s spiraling out of control, and you think, “I can’t keep going like this.” Yet, somehow, you push through—comfortably uncomfortable—thinking maybe things will get better when you reach college, only to find even more change, more stress, and a lot more self-doubt. You start fixating: “Who am I? What’s my purpose? Why can’t I figure it out like everyone else?” It seems like everyone else has it together, while you’re left feeling lost and alone.
But even in those moments when you feel completely trapped, with no idea how to escape, there is a way forward.You’re not alone in this—what you’re feeling is real. Finding the strength to reach out for help can make all the difference.
If you’re anything like me, you may be feeling uncertain about starting therapy, not sure you are ready or if you really need it, afraid to talk, or maybe feeling ‘forced’ into. I want you to know: I will always meet you where you are, and take time tending to our relationship until you feel comfortable and safe.
I won’t give up on you! Change takes time, and I’m here for you every step of the way.
Having personally experienced sudden losses I intimately understand the profound impact of grief. My journey has shaped my awareness of what it truly means to feel broken and all it takes to rebuild.The deep emptiness that comes with grief, the unbearable weight and pain so intense that even the most basic tasks—breathing, thinking, or getting through the day seem insurmountable.The emotional rollercoaster, marked by sudden lows and bursts of intense feelings, can leave one fearing a breakdown desperate to feel numb just to hold it together.The unsettling disorientation about what is real and what isn’t, the fear of losing control, and the deep-seated belief that one may never recover. Overwhelming guilt, uncertainty, self-blame can be all consuming physically leaving you sick to your stomach or paralyzed, Not wanting to go on this way anymore yet so terrified of ‘moving on and forgetting’ because the pain, as excruciating as it is, feels like the only connection left to the love that was and the future that might have been.
Whether you’ve lost someone, something important—or even part of yourself, Grief is heavy, and paving your way through can feel impossible. Healing doesn't come from ‘getting over it’; rather learning to carry it in a way that no longer causes you anguish, cultivates purpose through the pain, and restores a meaningful connection to the love you’ve lost. It may not feel like it yet, but I promise you, it is possible to rediscover a sense of normalcy and feel at peace again.
Like you- I am on this wild ride of parenting! As a mom of multiples, I know firsthand parenting is HARD! The daily struggles and demands can feel lonely and overstimulating, leaving you depleted, frazzled, and worn down by all the expectations. The pressure to parent ‘the right way’ can be overwhelming and cause us to disconnect from what truly matters that we end up losing ourselves along the way. It’s exhausting—even at times unfulfilling—raising healthy, adjusted, resilient kids. Drawing on my years of experience as a child therapist and my knowledge of child development,I am passionate about supporting parents so you feel successful in guiding your kids. Whether you're seeking guidance to tailor your parenting style to your family’s unique needs or looking for evidence-based strategies that foster lasting change, I’m here to help you gain relief at home so your family can truly thrive!
Whether you are soon to be a mom, a seasoned veteran, somewhere in between or simply just considering joining the Never-Ending Party that is motherhood- I can help you navigate the Always-Changing Complexities. I know the best way to help your child grow is to take care of you first help you feel grounded, connected, and present through the thick of it all so you can show up confidentially as the parent you want to be.
“I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become” Carl Jung
Growth is often misunderstood as a steady upward climb, but in reality, it involves facing discomfort and the unknown. It often feels like a setback, but every loss creates space for something we need. Hardships give rise to life’s greatest blessings— hope through darkness, strength in vulnerability, compassion amid suffering, love in grief, life within dying, and support during caregiving. When you're unsure whether you're progressing or unraveling remember: growth requires letting go of what no longer serves you, creating space for change. With courage, you can release old patterns, doubts, limiting beliefs, and surrender fears. Even in the hardest moments, you have the power to transform challenges into something meaningful and emerge stronger than imagined.
Hard things are put in our way not to stop us but to call out our courage and strength - and courage starts with just showing up!
A little about me!
- I was born an army brat in Kansas and have flown in a military helicopter.
- I met my husband in high school, but no, we were not high school sweethearts! We have three amazing kids we affectionately call our “Gremlins.”
- I have a German Shepard,Artie! (planned to train him to be a therapy dog, unfortunately he had too much anxiety, but I still taught him to give hugs though! (And if you are a cat person.. I love BENGALS! And enjoy following Taylor Swift’s cats on social media)
- I’ve danced ballet my entire life! I love starting random kitchen dance parties and try to keep my skills fresh by learning the latest dance trends.
- My guilty pleasure is binge watching teen drama series & am always down to rehash the latest episodes together.
- I didn’t try sushi until after college (because new things make me anxious!), but now it’s my absolute favorite food. I eat it at least once (sometimes more) a week.
- Some of my clients have introduced me to ‘Harry Potter Therapy’ and have been told I am a mix of Ravenclaw and Hufflepuff… but my favorite character is Snape so tragically misunderstood- with love hidden beneath his pain.
- OWLS are my spirit animal! Transformative, wise, spiritual, insightful, and intuitive- all qualities I strive to embody.
- My life mantra is from my favorite book The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: “When you love, you strive to become better than you are. When you strive to become better than you are, everything around you becomes better too.”
- Yoga, brainwave meditations, and hiking are my most cherished activities to unwind, relax, and recharge.
- “I CAN DO HARD THINGS” is my go to affirmation (I remind myself this every time I have to order a pizza on the PHONE!)
My experience
Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology, Adler School of Professional Psychology
Bachelor of Science in Psychology, Minors in Dance and Women and Gender Studies, Loyola University Chicago
With over 15 years of experience, I’ve helped children, teens, families, and adults across a range of settings (including residential, inpatient, outpatient, hospital, and community-based agencies) and held leadership roles as department director and clinical supervisor. With a strong background in program development I obtained specialized training and experience in the following:
-
- Substance abuse and addiction treatment
- Bereavement Counseling (child bereavement, end-of-life transitions, loss of a child, parental loss, adult and pediatric hospice and palliative care, traumatic loss, and caregiver support)
- Cancer support
- Fertility support, Pregnancy loss, NICU challenges,
- Non-suicidal self-Injury